Do you remember your first love? I'm not talking your first true love as an adult, I'm talking your first love. I do. His name was David. Oh how I loved that boy. I loved that boy from 4th grade to 8th grade and probably even longer than that. I still love that boy - just not like I did back then. Like with every relationship, you get to know other parts of their lives, including their family. Thankfully, in this case, I got another mom that even now - 26 years later is still my other mom. I still call her mom. I still love her like my other mom. And thanks to facebook, I keep in better contact with her now than I did for many years.
Sunday, June 17, 2012
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I don't know what to say about this woman. There are so many people that have influenced my life but few have influenced me as much as this woman has. Please let me introduce my grandmother.
She is truly my other mother. I half jokingly refer to myself as her youngest child. I am, in fact, her eldest grandchild. I have caused so much havoc in her life it is not even relatively funny. She has held my hand when I needed her and even when I didn't. She has supported ever decision - stupid or not - I have ever made. She was one of the many who helped teach me how to read and shared with me the importance of education. She came to so many of my school events - choir and band concerts, cross country and track meets, endless dance recitals and disastrous gymnastics meets. I have a chosen few true heroes in my life. This woman is one of them. I don't think she understands just how important she is to me or how much I love her, but she is and I do!
She is truly my other mother. I half jokingly refer to myself as her youngest child. I am, in fact, her eldest grandchild. I have caused so much havoc in her life it is not even relatively funny. She has held my hand when I needed her and even when I didn't. She has supported ever decision - stupid or not - I have ever made. She was one of the many who helped teach me how to read and shared with me the importance of education. She came to so many of my school events - choir and band concerts, cross country and track meets, endless dance recitals and disastrous gymnastics meets. I have a chosen few true heroes in my life. This woman is one of them. I don't think she understands just how important she is to me or how much I love her, but she is and I do!
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Oh dear, what can I say? This is another sister. This is the sister that is probably the most like me. Want to guess what that means? We're the emotional ones. We're the stubborn ones. We're the ones who don't back down. Translate that into - we're the ones who butt heads most often. Well, that's not true. We don't so much anymore. For the most part, I think we have grown out of our arguing. The really funny thing is that I am far closer to her now than I ever thought I would be. There were years where I didn't think we would ever be able to sit in a room together without arguing. I love her - probably more than she realizes.
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So how many of you had "surrogate" grandparents as a kid? I know I did. I had the grandfather our classroom adopted in 3rd grade. I had the elderly couple that lived down the road from us and I had (and still have) this beautiful woman....
My mom went to school with her kids. I don't know how old I was when I met her, not that it matters. I just know that she has always been Grandma Mickey. She is still Grandma Mickey and I love her with all my heart and am extremely glad I had the opportunity to get this picture.
My mom went to school with her kids. I don't know how old I was when I met her, not that it matters. I just know that she has always been Grandma Mickey. She is still Grandma Mickey and I love her with all my heart and am extremely glad I had the opportunity to get this picture.
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One of the great parts about having 4,509,987,873 siblings is that each of those siblings has friends and as we grow older and dynamics change, we end up making friends with our siblings friends. It's actually pretty fabulous. Like in this case, this young lady is the best friend of one of my sisters and because of that friendship, she became my friend as well.
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Ok, away from family for a minute. How about those that might as well be family? I joke about my "hair magician" all the time. The thing is, we spent years being a part of a gym family and so while she and her family may not be family by blood, they will always hold a special place in my heart. Here's the hair magician's youngest daughter...
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Of course, speaking of family, every family has to have the heckler. You know the one - he's the guy always cracking jokes and giving everybody grief. Basically, the one everybody loves but only admits it when forced. In all seriousness, I love this kid. He's the perfect guy for my sister and I am glad he is a part of our family.
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